Tonight, my Unconventional conventionalists...
here is my accumlated fuz, 1 year on T.
Please take note to the fact that my tummy hair gets so out of control that I have to trim it….
More of just me, and the changes that have happend now that it is 1 year on T.
I cant believe it has gone by this quick!
Please, if you have or ever think you could date a trans man, watch this.
This man is so fucking spot on and sweet.
A topic that people seam to be unclear on (if only this could be beamed into every persons eyes so they see it.) It IS inappropriate to ask or try to talk to someone who is Transgender, about: Their past name/s, what they “really” are, surgery, hormones, life decisions regarding their transition, why or why not they do or do not want to do something regarding their transition, AND it is inappropriate to asume that every trans person you meet will want to talk to you.
I happen to be a VERY open person about this stuff, I don’t mind taking the bullet for other guys and explain the ins and outs, BUT if you are a fucking ignorant ass hole about it i will probably want to bitch smack you in the face.
Please everyone, think before you speak. Sometimes one question is enough to put someone into the red zone. The rate of suicide among Trans* individuals is so fucking high it makes me want to cry (which i cant really do anymore), and you DON’T know how your “harmless” question could effect someone.
You don’t have a casual conversation with an AIDS patient about if they started to loose the will to live, that shit is to stressful and is unnecessary to talk about, so dont aid in the stress and shit Trans* people ALREADY have.
never think it is ok to ask because a HUGE majority of Trans* people, don’t want to talk about it. I dont drill you on your “decisions as a Cis person” do i?


